C is For CBT

CBT, or cock and ball torture, seems like an activity that most male submissives (or most males in general) would do their best to avoid being subjected to.  While I am not a hardcore sadist, I have to tell you that engaging a play partner in mild to moderate forms of CBT can be most exhilarating for both the dominant and submissive involved.  Understand that I appreciate and love a man’s cock and balls, and derive great pleasure from them in a variety of ways…including inflicting a little pain or sensation to his most sensitive parts.

The thing to understand here is pain can actually be a very erotic experience.  Most often pain is associated with punishment, and understandably so.  However, in the right context, pain can be a shared sensual and powerful exchange.  Endorphin release via pain play enhances the senses and quiets the mind…not to mention how utterly beautiful a boy looks and sounds while receiving a nice, loving whipping to his private parts.    CBT can also involve activities  such as cock bondage with ropes, implementing chastity devices, use of electrical toys or even urethral insertion.

My idea of CBT is not so much that it be utilized as a form of “punishment”, per se, but more as a way to enhance submissive feelings (both physically and mentally).   When a submissive is focused on the physical sensations of pain, he is more apt to attain a sense of sub-space, because let’s face it, you’re not going to be pondering that big work project or thinking about mundane chores you still have to take care of when your cock is being flogged, pinched and/or paddled.   That’s the thing about pain play in general; it essentially forces one to be in the moment. Everything else that worries one in their daily round becomes irrelevant.  And in that frame of mind, sub-space is more easily attained.  It’s actually quite a serene thing to witness.  Creating a balance between pleasure and pain is a favorite way I like to carry out CBT games.  The very best part is when a play mate is so immersed in the physical, he is temporarily unable to differentiate between pleasure and pain.  Now that, is a most excellent display of exerting control over another’s body!

For the novice CBT practitioner or seeker, the most important thing to remember is to go slow and experiment with various sensations.  Start out with some light ball slapping…then perhaps move onto candle wax decoration to the cock (its best to shave the genital area *before* dripping hot wax; clean-up will be easier),  some clothespins…maybe a little game of cock percussion by drumming up some lovely melodies with wooden spoons, rulers, metal spoons, and so on.  Wartenberg wheels are also excellent tools for sensation play…on any part of the flesh.   Binding the cock with rope or cord can be a lot of fun too…and I plan to include a segment and a more involved kink assignment  incorporating cock-bondage play in a separate post soon.

Safety tip:  You should never do anything that might bend or squish an erect penis.  You do NOT want to damage the erectile tissue.  I don’t care how much of a sadist/masochist you are!

And now, for a little Kink Assignment involving some CBT:

You will need–

• Lots of clothespins
• Your cock and balls
• A camera if you’re brave enough to share your “masterpiece” with me….

Take off all of your clothes.  Relax.  Take a few nice, deep breaths.  Sit on the floor with your legs bent up and spread.  Beginning at the base of your cock, and affix the clothespins…start close to your anus, and place one clothespin after another, keeping them as close as you possibly can.   Use as many clothespins as you can to your balls and bring them up to the head of your cock.  It should look almost like a “mohawk”.   When you have all of the clothespins attached to your cock/balls as you can fit, lie on your back and stay there for at least ten minutes more.  As you’re lying there, all prettily decorated like that, concentrate on what is going through your mind.  What are you thinking about?  How does this make you feel? Physically, emotionally?  Take a picture of your new “art project”.   Do not exceed twenty minutes with the clothespins on your body.

When the 10 to 20 minutes are up, remove the clothespins. If you’re a genuine painslut, go ahead and pull them off quickly!  Remember, taking clothespins off of your body will hurt a hell of a lot more then putting them on.  Relish in these sensations and share what that felt like with me here or in a private email.  Then with your hands, get yourself off.  How does your orgasm feel after you subjected your cock and balls to a bit of torment?

I invite you to share your work…send photos and/or email reports to: kinkyfunmina@yahoo.com

Until next time,

Mina, Kink Artist Extraordinaire

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